Thursday, September 22, 2005

Love and Crush!

Guys, my previous post was just to inform you an interesting incident that happened after 13 years and now I am happy that I have let things out of my mind which I had kept all these years. So my mind is free from all the past thoughts :). Moreover, I need to let you all know that I am too old for romancing and have better work to do than romancing around trees! :))

Now for today's topic: Can you guys educate me the difference between luv and crush?

On a funny note: "Asin namma mela viluntha luvu - shakeela namma mela viluntha crushu (we will get crushed!)" - friends eppadi iruku en hikoo :))

44 Comments:

At September 22, 2005 5:22 AM, Blogger Kasthuri Srinivasan said...

Crush is immanent while love is transcendent.

 
At September 22, 2005 5:48 AM, Blogger Sriram C S said...

Arjuna, romancing is not done around the trees this days. Crush and love, let me explain. When I take a girl out for coffee, then what I have for the girl is crush, but what I have for coffee is love because I take any girl out only for coffee!!!

 
At September 22, 2005 6:12 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Kasthuri - aaha - romba serious-a reply pannuringa - enna experience-a? ;)

 
At September 22, 2005 6:13 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Agni - what a funda man! Chanceless :))..

Now the question is who pays for the coffee ? :))

 
At September 22, 2005 6:16 AM, Blogger Sriram C S said...

There is a funda there also. If the girl has a crush on you, then she pays the bill. If the girl is in love with you, then you pay the bill!! :)

 
At September 22, 2005 6:18 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

this is ulti funda :))

But unfortunately I have been paying the bills all these years
:((

 
At September 22, 2005 7:41 AM, Blogger mysorean said...

immanent?!!

Typing www.dictionary.com

2 entries found for immanent.
im·ma·nent
Audio pronunciation of "immanent" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (m-nnt)
adj.

1. Existing or remaining within; inherent: believed in a God immanent in humans.
2. Restricted entirely to the mind; subjective.


@Kasthuri: You are still in the OHT frequency. Despite Dictionary.com! ;)

@Arjuna: Simbulla sollren pa. After 13 years, if you still feel that you should confide your feelings to the girl, then its love. Otherwise, it was not love. I don't know what crush is. Some stupid Management graduate would have coined the jargon.

PS: Simbulla is simple + aa in tamil!

PS 1: Asin-Shakeela quote still has me ROFL!!

 
At September 22, 2005 8:30 AM, Blogger mysorean said...

It was lovely talking to you Arjuna! :)

Thanks a lot for calling!

 
At September 22, 2005 8:35 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Adi - thanks a lot buddy :) - It was my pleasure talking to u as well..Nice to know that such good guys are around :)..Hopefully I will be coming to Chennai in October and meet you :)..

 
At September 22, 2005 9:45 AM, Blogger Sriram C S said...

@Arjuna - The final proof that coffee is true love according to my theory...the coffee never pays for you, you always pay for coffee!! (With ref to my last comment!!)

 
At September 22, 2005 11:04 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Agni - how true :))

Rule : Its better to fall in luv with coffee rather than a woman :))

 
At September 22, 2005 11:24 AM, Blogger TJ said...

If you have the coffee in a disposable container, then it is a Crush.[u crush the cup]
If the coffee is in a cup, it is the 'Cup'id in action.
If the coffe is in a tumbler, then u have tumbled :(

Now, Arjuna, dont ask me what if i pour the coffe on to my palms and drink?? u shud be knowing what it is;)

 
At September 22, 2005 11:26 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

TJ - itha itha thaan naan ethirpaathan - sumava 'avanga' ungal paathu mayangunaanga :))

Super funda :))

 
At September 22, 2005 11:27 AM, Blogger awakeningcoma said...

naan pakathuvitu ponnumela katrathu luvu, atheye avanga amma mela katna athu crush illaatha ithu ethavathu onnu avanga kudumba thalaivaruku therinja naa crush[ed].epadi

 
At September 22, 2005 11:28 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

awakeningcoma - Siva Siva - karmam karmam :))

Naan intha vilayatuku varula - etho pandiarajan padam paatha mathiri iruku :))

 
At September 22, 2005 11:29 AM, Blogger Jeevan said...

luv means beauty, crush means noty. nallayeruka

 
At September 22, 2005 11:31 AM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

jeevan - super :))

Or can we say luv-na Maniratnam padam , crush-na S.J Surya padam :))

 
At September 22, 2005 12:05 PM, Blogger awakeningcoma said...

kasumattum selavana athu krush,
athey kannavugal selavanna kaadhal.

 
At September 22, 2005 1:21 PM, Blogger priya said...

love lasts .. a crush doesnt.. simple funda :D

..p..

 
At September 22, 2005 2:07 PM, Blogger ada-paavi!!!! said...

idu romba complicated a irukku, romba kastam, en siriya moolaiya kasaki paathutten,

my answer crush na pick up drop escape,and meter charge vanduvom,
kaadhal na pick up only, apporam pickup ku namba Kasu selavu aagum

idukku mela venumna

i cant find an answer,
PLS contact vairamuthu (care of nageshwara park, luz) or TR (care of vandloor zoo)

 
At September 22, 2005 2:43 PM, Blogger Subha said...

Crush is ephemeral..love is eternal. I know that's a cliched answer..:) But anyways..

 
At September 22, 2005 3:52 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

awakeningcoma - romba over experience pola ;)

 
At September 22, 2005 3:53 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

priya - yeah yeah experience speaks! :))

 
At September 22, 2005 3:54 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

vatsan - I will go to Vandaloor :p

ada danganaka :))

 
At September 22, 2005 3:55 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Subha - neengale sollitinga - that means correct-a thaan irukum :)

 
At September 22, 2005 4:12 PM, Blogger Saravana Kumar said...

@Arjuna Valiyaadhada - naan solren kettukko

Sexual Attraction in crush

The Universal relation you have with all the beings, the supreme bond, that which is without any expectations, unconditional support, equanimity towards everyone, that which is beyond sex, beyond all kinds of actions

That is true love man

 
At September 22, 2005 4:15 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Saravana - ippo thaan un blog-la periyar war nadanthuchu - athukula inga vanthutiya :))..

Love-ku orai peyar Amma! Mother is luv! Luv is Mother!

Crush ellam Summa ;)

 
At September 22, 2005 4:16 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Saravana - I meant periya war!

 
At September 22, 2005 4:28 PM, Blogger Aatma said...

crush is mere attraction it does not mean anything more than that, in few days u will forget it.

Love as someone said above, will be remembered always

Unnoda case le all the 13 was deep rooted love, ippon varike yellarum pati think pannriye. --- Nee samayara poredhle thape ille ;)

I can understand your feeling ;)

 
At September 22, 2005 4:36 PM, Blogger sukhanya said...

@ awakeningcoma : ROTFL.. thank god i was not seen by my collegues..literally got choked laughing...

@ ARjuna : SIGHTing is seeing once.. adhayey thirumba parkanumnu thoni thedi paartha ..that is crush.. (konja thadavaila aluthurum)..adhayey 1000 peru irundhalum andha crowdla un aalu mattum therinja.. adhu love.. adhey crowdla irundhu andha love izthukinu vootukku ponamna adhu thaan nee katikkita "stove" (kuthu vilakku)....
epdi namba logic...

tata
sukku

 
At September 22, 2005 7:24 PM, Blogger WA said...

Me totally agrees with what Sukku has said above. Idhu logic :)

 
At September 22, 2005 7:46 PM, Blogger Ganesh said...

ennappa route engaoyo pogramari irukku

 
At September 22, 2005 9:00 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Aatma - wow enna thathuvom :))..do u mean to say I shuld marry all 13 :O :)) - following the path of Lord Krishna ;)

 
At September 22, 2005 9:00 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Sukku - oru santhekam - neenga aana ponna? :))

 
At September 22, 2005 9:01 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

WA - jadiku etha moodi :))

 
At September 22, 2005 9:01 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

ganesh - engappa poguthu?

Kanna naan enga poven eppadi povenu enaku theiryathu - aana poga vendiya edathuku correct-a poiduven ;)

 
At September 23, 2005 2:44 PM, Blogger Slice Of Life said...

CRUSH IS INFATUATION
LOVE IS ETERNAL BLISS...
WHAT DO U SAY?
NOW U DONT ASK WHAT IS INFATUATION AND LOVE?
NAKEERARKITTTHAN PATHIL KETKANAUM
UMA

 
At September 23, 2005 10:57 PM, Blogger Narayanan Venkitu said...

Super Hikoo.!! But rendu perum serndhu vizhundhaal eppidi irukkum.!

What would I know about Luv/Crushes etc.! I am already in the senior league.!!! I remember Sivaji's song

50ilum aasai varum
aasiyudan paasam varum.!!

LOL :)

 
At September 24, 2005 4:55 AM, Anonymous lxsn said...

crush can become luv but not viceversa.

 
At September 24, 2005 4:45 PM, Blogger B said...

You can love your crush
but you cant CRUSH your love

 
At September 25, 2005 1:53 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Uma - very good answer :)..

 
At September 25, 2005 1:53 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

narayanan sir - romba thanks - aaha - unga paatu super :))..

 
At September 25, 2005 1:54 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

lxsn - that was a good one as well :)

 
At September 25, 2005 1:54 PM, Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

bala - is this a punch dialogue ? :))

 

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